4,000 Miles

Spring of 2010, we brought our car in for a routine service: oil change, tire rotation, fluids, etc. We were about to drive it all the way to Seattle, from San Jose, and thought it was a good idea to make sure the car was in good condition. Two years later, the car told us that we should change the oil again; so we did. And we noticed the odometer incremented about 4,000 miles. Yep. Life is quite different from California here.

According to the Federal Highway Administration, people of my age group (35~55) drive 18,858 miles a year. That will be 33,716 miles more than I did for these two years. Counting only the fuel, wear and tear, parking and toll, and probability of accidents, each mile driven costs about 35 cents. Driving only 4,000 miles in these two years saved me $11,800.

I used to believe a 30-minute commute was a good one. I knew people, while in Silicon Valley, that drive from San Francisco, San Ramon, or Gilroy to work everyday. That would be 60 to 90 minutes of driving, one way. Those are the people who brought up the average for my age group. In addition to nearly $6,000 they would spend on the car every year, they would also spend almost 500 hours in it. That’s 1.5 hours a day of life, every day.

I came to Seattle for a job. I thought a new city would be fun to explore and experience, like my years in Beijing. This city offered me all those, and a better lifestyle.

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Grilling Whole Chicken

I watch American’s Test Kitchen (and its extension, Cook’s Country) regularly. Recently, I was inspired by the way they grill chicken.

The science of this method is to eliminate the chicken’s (and, really, all fowl’s) anatomical difficulty for cooking them whole. The meat of all fowl are distributed unevenly. It is quite difficult to make both the breast and drums cooked and juicy at the same time. The trick is rather straight-forward: just flatten the whole thing. With a good pair of kitchen shears, one can easily cut through the back bones. The result is a whole-piece butterflied chicken.

Pat it dry, salt and pepper, and let it sit until the whole thing reaches room temperature. During that time, think what rub to put on it. The typical recipe involves something citric, such as lemon zest, and something sweet, like brown sugar or honey. For us, garlic paste, lemon juice, and soy sauce do the trick.

Heat up the grill and put the chicken on it, skin side down, for about 5 minutes. Then move the chicken to an indirect area, that heat does not directly apply to the meat, close the lid, and leave the whole thing alone for 20 minutes.

Open up the lid, apply whatever sauce you have concocted up earlier, and close the the lid for at least 10 minutes before repeating the basting process. This is also the time to insert the meat thermometer into the center of the breast. Check the temperature every 10 minutes until it reaches 170°F.

Put the chicken on the serving plate, tent it with foil, and wait about 5 minutes. I like to eat them with my hands. You? I really don’t have time to worry about that now.

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My Own Prohibition

How would you know if you were chemically dependent? What does it feel like to detox from an addiction?

I used to be a heavy smoker and quit cold-turkey. The first week was miserable. I craved cigarettes and didn’t know what to do with myself. The second week got better, and so on. I am pretty sure that I am addicted to caffeine. I get this dull headache around 2pm if I miss my cup of Joe. Only a good afternoon nap or a dose of Tylenol-equivalent can fix it, not even a make-up shot of espresso. So when a loving family member suggested that I might be addicted to alcohol, I accepted the challenge of abstinence for one month. A whole month! All 29 days of it.

There was no trembling, sweating, depression, or other typical withdrawal symptoms. I learned the various occasions that I drink: beers after work, wines with good foods, sports programs on TV, or lubrication for conversations. I don’t drink to get drunk. I drink to enhance experiences. I found ready substitutions for alcohol for all of them. Water, slightly flavored with a drop of lemon juice, works in most cases. Teas and juices work well too. But they enhance less.

Enhancement or not, counting its energy density, alcohol is essentially pure carbohydrate, like candy. I consumed less calories in February by drinking mostly zero-calorie beverages and eating less. (The foods were still delicious. I ate less probably for three reasons: less “enhancements” to encourage me to have another serving, being more conscientious of the foods themselves, and stronger will power without chemical influence.) By the end of the month, I was about 3 pounds lighter.

I found myself eating less red meat and “fine cuisine” in restaurants. Steaks, lamb, burgers, etc., are so much more enjoyable with a nice glass of cold lager or robust red wine; as fine restaurant foods with wine pairing. This is the same as when I quit smoking. Like desserts, a cigarette is nice after a good meal. I missed that for many years and definitely missed pairing drinks with delicious foods. Gosh, why are we made to crave unhealthy things?

Yes, like the USA, my prohibition ended.

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I am a sucker for sequels..

The 2nd and 3rd of the Stieg Larsson trilogy are really one book. Stop when you have finished the first, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, and prepare yourself to read two books in a row. Otherwise, just don’t start The Girl who Played with Fire at all.

I read that the genre “suspense” is when the reader does not know what’s going on and the protagonist in the book does, thriller the other way around, and mystery when neither know. Stieg Larsson masterfully mixed all three with subplots and intertwined threads. All the while he kept the characters vivid and, damn him, heart gripping. You would smile, frown, worry, loath, or cheer for them. Then you realize that you have pulled an all-nighter finishing the books. Very cool.

At the end, you knew that Larsson was tying up the loose ends. I felt excited that there will be closures for everything. Then he ended with the biggest one un-tied. I closed the book with a silent sigh. The characters wouldn’t allow the big closure and this is the only way, no matter how much I wanted it.

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Diversification is not the goal

Riding on FaceBook’s IPO news frenzy, CalSTRS, California’s Teacher’s Pension Fund, asked the company to add a woman to the board. “We are disappointed that the Facebook board will not have any women members,” CalSTRS corporate governance director Anne Sheehan wrote in a letter to Facebook founder and Chief Executive Mark Zuckerberg Tuesday. “We believe that investors and the company would benefit from a larger, more diverse board.” (As reported by MercuryNews.com.)

Both parts of her statement are correct and agreeable, but the combined is illogical and nonsensical. You can substitute the word “women” with a plethora of demographic classifiers and the argument is equally forceful. The board has no, say, Asian, black, Latino, Indians, medical doctors, senior citizens, gay or lesbian (to my knowledge). It is strange for CalSTRS, an organization not directly associated with female gender, to advocate for women. Who are to advocate for other demographic groups?

American businesses are the purest, they pursue monetary successes either at personal or corporate level, or preferably both. The competition is fierce and non-relenting. Every companies is out to squash their competitors or trying to survive. This translates to personal level. Every CEO, executives, managers, individual contributors all work so hard to get ahead or stay alive. They will try every tricks on the book, as long as it works.

Diversification itself is not the goal. There are business goals: revenue, profitability, stock prices, market share, personal gains, etc. If diversification helps (and it usually does), then businessmen will adopt. Anne Sheehan, representing shareholders, should have advocated means to boost stock prices. If adding a woman to the board will actually hurt the shareholder’s value, why would Facebook do that?

The best way for woman to become equal in corporate world is for them to beat their male counter-parts on business level. This is also true for Asian, black, Latino, Indians, or whatever you are.

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Your big moment

Once in a long while, you have a chance to meet the big boss, the one you saw on stage and never met in social events other than company parties. You have 45 minutes to an hour. Your foremost goal is to impress him positively. The secondary goal is not to screw up. What to do?

No managers should be concerned with what would you possibly be talking to the big boss about. But your own manager may feel embarrassed that he or she does not know everything. You should inform your boss that such event has been scheduled and gauge his/her reaction. In general, there should be no restriction on what you can or cannot say. There is no need to seek approval from anyone.

It is unlikely that your conversation with the big boss will stay between just two of you. The big boss always works through other people. If you expect anything to change because of your conversation with him. Someone else will know about the conversation.

Be prepared. Rehearse your topics and approaches. Bring a note. Bring a pen.

I don’t understand those who think everything will go well without preparing for it. No athletes win without practicing. No performers go on stage without rehearsing. No writers publish without editing. Why would you expect good outcome without preparation?

  • Go straight to the point. Don’t employ the “scientific process” (state your hypothesis, present your data, draw your conclusion). Do the opposite:
    • Say the key point (the ask, the opinion, the conclusion, whatever) directly and in the beginning.
    • Wait 1 second (maybe two), gauge the reaction, start stating the key reasons or your persuasive arguments. State the conclusion directly. Be prepared on data, but don’t bring them out unless requested. This shows that you are prepared and also respectful for his time and intelligence.
    • Do not dramatize or over-emphasize. This is not a performance, but a persuasive argument. Hard selling arouses suspicion.
  • In general, the most impressive topic is a way to bring in incremental revenue with little or no investment. (I have this code prototyped already. I think it will be $200m revenue. All we need to do is spin another box.) The second is a process change to improve efficiency dramatically. (This step in our standard process is a waste of time 95% of the time. We can simply do thing this way instead…)
    Then you can ask for information that you are curious about and only he has the insight. (What’s your thought on going after the enterprise market?)
  • Or you can seek career or personal coaching. (I am thinking of starting a company to do this…)
  • If you have a negative opinion on anything or anyone, always have an alternative or a solution that is plausible. (Fire him. Put myself in charge. This is what I would do differently.)
  • Avoid asking for personal favors (can I get more raise this year?), instead ask for programmatic change that may benefit you more (we should have a child-care subsidy for families like myself.)

Rehearse out loud. If you merely have thought of what you are going to say, the words wouldn’t come out right. When you are done with all your point, stand up, thank him, shake hands, and leave. Don’t try to milk every minutes that are “yours.”

Good luck.

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三國(6): 楊修之死

一句”食之無味,棄之可惜”, 楊修就被曹操給宰了. 後人說他的故事, 都在他聰明的地方. 只是”恃才放曠“, 惹毛了老闆曹操, 才丟了腦袋.

太多人聰明一世,只錯在一點: 做事的後果沒搞清楚. 也不需要有太長遠的考慮,只要眼前的後果就行了. 美國總統候選人Mitt Romney拒絕公開他的稅單,這有可能嗎? 要選總統,還有不公開的選擇? 公司有個員工,差旅報銷,不但高過準則,數目字還不符,還用了五年前的發票. 這不是想被炒嗎?

曹操定軍山敗了,進退兩難,真不知道該不該打劉備,說了句”雞肋”. 被楊修聽出來了他的心意. 但也不能老羞成怒,硬幹. 找敗戰. 羅貫中的看法,曹操早想殺楊修了. 最重要的原因,是楊修在幕後干預了曹操立嗣,扶佐曹植. 曹操不要別人知道他在選嗣. 楊修不但看出來了,還決定去挺曹植.他看出曹操心意沒說,決定挺曹植也沒請准. 也就是說他替曹操下了立嗣的決定. 這不是找死?

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SuperBowl Lunch Salad

Yes, I am trying to be healthier. No, I am not drinking beer with this salad. That’s another blog.

I do “spontaneous salad” once in a while. It usually involved tossing whatever in the fridge and a very spontaneous home made dressing. Most of those experiments ended up with a weird expression on everyone’s faces, including mine. Today, it was delicious.

Dressing:

Olive oil, balsamic vinegar, orange juice, pressed garlic (one piece), honey mustard, agave syrup, ground pepper. Put everything into a bowl, whisk vigorously until it slightly emulsified. Portions “to taste” or “eye balled.” (Yes, I am a precision chef.)

Salad:

Costco “Spring Mix” greens. Half an apple, half an avacado, 4 slices of canned peaches. All cubed.

Toss everything together. Sprinkle generously roasted almond slices on top. Served in the tossing bowl.

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Do you want to be a genius?

The good news is that you can be as brilliant as Tiger Woods, Warren Buffet, or even Mozart! The bad news is that you are probably a bit too late. But don’t despair, there is still hope.

Geoff Colvin’s book, Talent is Overrated (ISBN: 978-1591842941), repeated what Malcolm Gladwell mentioned in Outliers that there is a magical 10,000 hours for geniuses. Anyone can perform as brilliantly as a genius after about 10,000 hours of practice. In fact, many studies revealed that the majority of those prodigious geniuses — Tiger Woods, Warren Buffet, Mozart — did just that. The only difference is that they started early and so appeared to be childhood prodigies. If you trace their training history, you will find that they all achieved the “greatness” level after about 10 years’ training.

I knew one such genius myself. It was first grade. He surpassed me oh so effortlessly on every subject and clinched #1 in class ranking without a hint of studying. I was so jealous of his brilliancy. He was the darling of every mother. “Why can’t you be like him?” I wanted to hate him, but he asked me to play at his house, so I did.

As we played, his mother was tutoring his elder brother right next to us (we all live in small apartments, there wasn’t much privacy then). And I found out why he invited me. I was his shield, his excuse, and his escape. Without I being there, his mother would have drilled and tutored him at the same time — one effort for the benefit of two. Ha! He was no genius. In fact, poor guy, he was trapped by his under-performing brother so that he couldn’t play everyday as I. We became best friends and, uh, his grades declined quickly.

So, if you wish to play like Tiger, invest like Warren, or compose like Mozart, all you have to do is put in about 10,000 hours of practice. On average, that would take about 10 years. That’s the good news. The bad news is by the time you finished that 10 years, others would have done their 20 years. Where is the hope? In professional fields and business, most people don’t really get better with time and 2,000 hours of practice are enough to make you shine. If you would spend half a day every week, that’s 4 hours a week, you will be quite good in a year’s time. If you keep it up, you will be super in about 3 years. It may be hard to be a brilliant golfer, but it takes surprising less to be better than everyone around you.

Are you willing to do 4 extra hours of practicing every week for a year? I have given this advice to many people, almost 100% had their lives get in the way: family, friends, kids, entertainment, social activities, etc. In the end, no one put in those hours.

Sadly, I concluded you really don’t want to be a genius. You just want an excuse of not being one.

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Oops..

I clicked the “automatic upgrade” to WordPress, whatever. Now I am a Chinese blog. Hmm…

I decided to live with this for a while. When WordPress asks me to upgrade again, I will choose the English version and see what will happen. For now, bear with me.

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